I grew up in Warren Rd (nr Eastfield school) and I remember being at the Nursery. They got a support worker for me to help with my needs. I felt very included and the teachers kept me involved or tweaked activities so I could always take part. We moved to Needingworth when I was 4 and a similar situation existed at Holywell school – good physical access and inclusion by the teachers set an example to other children. I was always one of the lads – like anyone else. It is easy to feel isolated as a disabled child but I was treated very normally. At 10 my mom and dad divorced and we moved back to Needingworth Rd, my mom is still there now. I didn’t go to the Ivo on account of the access there and had to get a minibus into Cambridge. Around the middle of secondary school I started to reconnect with friends in St Ives. The friends I made in St Ives will be my friends for life – we grew up together. It’s safe, clean, basically friendly, a good place to grow up. Transport and taxis are better now – before I could drive it was quite a problem. Transport is much better now. I can get into most shops and restaurants – sometimes I have to go through the kitchen at the Montaz. Pubs and Clubs are more accessible than not. If we go to the Music Box/Lounge my mates have to lift my chair up the steps. If I was to dream about a perfect day in the future – everywhere would be accessible – I moved away because of limited career opportunities. One day I might take my learning and my entrepreneurial spirit and come back. I love the community, restaurants, pubs, I have more choice in London – in my late teens and early twenties I felt a need to break out – St Ives is quite white and middle class and I like the diversity of London.
When I drive up the M11/A14 and turn in over the bypass – I see the old mill apartments –see the river and feel a wave of relaxation come over me, I have so many happy memories. From a practical point of view more drop kerbs would be really important. Education, Community, the chance to earn a living these things seem really fundamental and St Ives has them but the chance for more leisure is hard with a wheelchair. A wheelchair football team would be great, or even just more suitable equipment in the gym. |